We've been married less than a year. We don't fight, we get along well..it's just he seems distant. When we were dating he used to cuddle with me for hours every night...and kiss me and tell me how much loved me..He made me feel so loved. He doesn't do that anymore. I can't help but wonder if he regrets marrying me and now is stuck.:( My heart is broken. I have thought long and hard...I can't think of anything I've done that would make him not want me...but still he doesn't.:( What do I do
You guys sound like you are in a rut. It could be any number of things from stress from work, money issues or just that the newness wore off. I suggest that you go someplace nice for the weekend and do things together. Then address the issue with him. Tell him your concerns about how his actions are causing you to feel. Make sure you share the responsibility rather than placing all the blame on him. Communication is the key to any relationship.