Ever since I started working at my new job 7.5months ago this one male coworker has ALWAYS stared at me, and when I catch him looking at me, he'll quickly turn away. I thought he was a Pisces or Virgo, because he rarely talks, but it turns out he's an Aries. I learned that he's gotten around with some female coworkers. He's dated like 3 of them, and just recently broke up with one. I don't know if he stares at me because I rarely talk to anyone at work, other than a selective few, or what. Last week, we had to close off some stuff at work, and he says to me "looks like you can't get any customers, we gotchya blocked off" and I said "yep" I know he's an Aries, and they're known for trying to flirt with anything that walks lol, no offense Aries. I have nothing against you guys, but what is up with him? Is he intrigued by me because I don't talk? o_O
No one other than you guys know I'm into astrology :P
Well he's clearly intrigued. He probably doesn't quite know what to do with you because you're not as charmed by his ways (which actually sound pretty uncharming) as the others. And yes, as the girl who speaks to a selective few, he probably wants some validation of his male prowess and you're not giving that to him. Therefore, he comes out with weird lines like the one you mentioned to see if he can get a rise out of you, or at least figure you out. Ugh, natural, but ugh. I predict it will escalate (not because I'm psychic -- I'm not) but because this guy sounds like he thrives on attention and your imperviousness to his charmless flirting will only make his heart grow fonder.